Foreword
Put together with the help of professionals, Second Sexual Revolution is a health and wellness site. At the same time, it is an effective tool to “maximise” your sexuality as well as a thought-provoking description of the reasons why everyone should, at the very least, take care of their sexual well-being in our modern society that paralyses our hormonal action. You can also find a great tip for all dieters – called “hormone diet” – as well as a comprehensive information package for all those interested in their hormonal action (a special nod to all weightlifters and athletes).
Even though the website is topical, informative and aimed at a global audience, we didn’t want it to look too serious. On the contrary, we wanted to create a reading experience that is fun and enjoyable but simultaneously opens the readers’ eyes to all of the possibilities and helps them to truly achieve them.
We can’t wait to find out how the site is received and how quickly it can turn its readers into true “superheroes of sex”. Happy reading!
”Beautiful sexuality, beautiful life. Maximize the beauty, maximize your sexuality”
Site Overview: What is the second sexual revolution all about?
“By nature, humans are sexual beings” means for the development of our species that the innate sexual health emanating from us acts as a highly attractive signal to the opposite sex and plays a significant role in the choice of partner as well as reproduction (we will take a closer look at sexual health and maximising it in section 1).
“By nature, humans are sexual beings” means that, as humans, we truly need sexual pleasure, as it is one of our essential natural needs. Therefore, it is also necessary for our overall well-being (we will take a closer look at maximising sexual pleasure in section 2).
“By nature, humans are sexual beings” means that sexuality is a key part of our personality. Discovering your personality and sexuality and genuinely realising them strongly feed the instinct to live and are prerequisites for experiencing the beauty of living (we will take a peek at sexual personalities in chapter 2).
Just over half a century ago, the unveiling of the truth about human sexuality and its naturalness sparked much debate and gave birth to the global phenomenon of the “first sexual revolution”, freeing us from sexual taboos. Today, the three aforementioned truths about human sexuality are still valid. However, the unfortunate fact is that our increasingly industrialised living environment has already, over the past half-century, radically destabilised our natural hormonal balance and, in that way, our sexual health. In addition, the role expectations related to sexuality imposed on us by the media and different cultures have distorted our perception of ourselves and so may have even managed to hide our true sexual personality.
Once again, it’s high time to create history. The time has come to embark on what we like to call the “second sexual revolution”. It is aimed at reversing this worrying trend in our sexuality and ensuring the beauty of living as sexual beings in this environment that paralyses us both physically and psychologically. It is time to maximise our sexuality through a simple lifestyle change that focuses on balancing our hormonal action and developing both the physical and mental factors supporting our sexual well-being.
In order for everyone in need of reliable help on their journey to becoming a “superhero of sex”, we will also talk about a few carefully chosen products that are proven to support the journey towards healthier and more enjoyable sexuality in the product section of our website (you can find the link at the top of the website). That said, we do not want a give our website a commercial feel but rather a sense of a functional and relevant tool that will help you achieve your goals.
Site content:
1. Your sexual health is part of your overall well-being and external appearance
1.1 The impact of nutrition and lifestyle on hormonal action – external factors
- Xenoestrogens and how to avoid them
- Phytoestrogens and how to avoid them
- How to block the action of oestrogen already existing in the body
- How to increase the quantity of free testosterone in the body
- How to increase the testosterone level via nutrition
1.2 The impact of nutrition and lifestyle on hormonal action – internal factors (hormone diet)
- Gastroenterology
- Liver
- Thyroid
- Ph balance
- Stress and sleep
- Insulin sensitivity
- The fat-burning effect of hormonal balance
2. Sexual pleasure – a mechanical act or an authentic feeling of living in the moment?
2.1 Physical factors
- Strengthening the PC muscles
2.2 Psychological factors
- Awakening, vision and growth
3. AFTERWORD
1. Your sexual health is part of your overall well-being and external appearance
What are the characteristics of a healthy person? We could easily list many qualities here, such as energy, a healthy skin and sparkling eyes, but sexuality is certainly a contributing factor. To give an example, I would argue that men who are still capable of producing children at the age of 100+ must have done something right in their lives with regard to their health. To me, it also seems conceivable that, in the course of the history of our development, we have always sought to choose a partner who supports certain instincts of ours. For example, I remember once reading about a study where women intuitively chose from a group of men the man with the best semen quality. Ultimately, what are the factors that we naturally pay attention to in the opposite sex and how sensitive and multidimensional can these mechanisms be? Don’t get me wrong. I am not talking here about the psychological and human factors that mean so much to us as sentient beings when choosing a partner. That said, I want to highlight a factor that is triggered in us (often subconsciously) when evaluating the opposite sex. That factor is vitality, health and sexuality. The ability to produce healthy offspring.
1.1 The impact of nutrition and lifestyle on hormonal action – external factors
Everyone knows that just a passionate glance from your partner across the room can set your loins on fire more than sex itself. When our mind receives a sexual stimulus, the hormones in the body related to sexuality start to play at the pace of a whole symphony orchestra. During a sexual stimulus/act, our pituitary gland primarily produces three hormones: oxytocin, prolactin and vasopressin. Oxytocin makes couples miss a touch and caress. It also increases the urge to commit. Prolactin levels peak at the moment of orgasm and radically drop after it. Especially in men, vasopressin improves concentration and the ability to pick up sexual cues and flirt with the opposite sex. Of course, a vast number of other instruments contribute to the activities of our symphony orchestra, and there are many ways we can influence the way they work. However, by far the most important instrument pair in this beautiful sex symphony, for both men and women, are the male and female hormones, and specifically their mutual balance.
In this section, we explain the way our natural hormonal balance – especially with regard to male and female hormones – has been disrupted over the last 50 years of industrial growth and what the consequences are. In this section, we also explain the way we can for our part correct this imbalance, that is, influence our hormonal balance through minor yet effective measures.
Xenoestrogens and how to avoid them
Xenoestrogens are chemicals existing in the environment that act like oestrogen (female hormone) in our body. These compounds are found in many places in the environment from cosmetics and plastic bottles to iPod headphones. These compounds attach themselves to the ERRγ oestrogen receptor (more specifically the NR3B3 receptor) in our body, which affects our natural hormonal action. The most studied xenoestrogens include phthalates, bisphenol A (BPA), DDT and parabens. Phthalates are used to soften plastics as well as in the manufacture of adhesives, dyes and various textiles. Bisphenone A is an important ingredient that affects the structure of plastic. Parabens have a bactericidal and fungicidal effect. Therefore, they are commonly used in products such as shampoos, skin creams, makeup, shower gels, self-tanning sprays, pharmaceuticals and toothpastes.
The xenoestrogen loads and topics that we are looking at in more depth most definitely do not amount to a level that causes an imbalance in a day, month or even a year. However, when you add together every “plastic tea” drunk from a soft plastic bottle, lunch warmed in a Teflon pan and all of the xenoestrogens that have entered our body from cosmetics and skin fats over several years, the effect will begin to show.
There have been numerous studies published on xenoestrogens that are extremely worrying for our endocrine system and fertility. Here is a summary of some of them:
- Harvard School of Public Health: A study conducted amongst 168 men discovered that the men with the highest levels of phthalates in their blood also had the lowest sperm count and sperm quality.
- Yale School of Medicine: Bisphenol A (BPA) can lead to learning disorders in children and neurological problems in adults.
- University of Copenhagen in Environmental Health Perspectives: Studies involving 96 male children showed that the children who received the highest levels of phthalates in breast milk had the lowest levels of testosterone.
- In the last 50 years, men’s sperm count has decreased by 50%. At the same time, testicular cancer has increased by 600%.
- Increased oestrogen levels make men less masculine (a phenomenon that I think is clearly evident in our society). Our testosterone levels have also decreased by approximately 20% during the last generation. At the same time, the sperm count and sperm quality are falling at an even faster rate. For example, a good indication is given by a study carried out in China in 2001 in which an exceptionally high number of university students were found to be sterile.
- Higher oestrogen levels are fundamentally linked to the explosive increase of breast cancer. In addition, hormonal imbalances are linked to prostate cancer, mood swings, decreased sexual desire and thousands of other disorders arising from these problems.
…and let’s take a bit of a wider perspective here. Personally, I believe that the shockingly high amount of plastic in our living environment is a significant factor (one of many) contributing to the rapidly increasing hormonal disruptions in our population. Of course, plastic is an extremely convenient raw material, which has allowed us to develop great tools, equipment and technology that were not possible before. The superiority of the raw material compared to many other materials has caused a sharp increase in production. For me, the global situation is perfectly illustrated by the fact that there is a “plastic island” twice the size of Mexico floating in the Pacific Ocean! Thanks to ocean currents moving as a vortex, there are huge rafts of debris consisting of 80% plastic building up in the area. Based on analysis, the water in the region contains up to 6 times more plastic than plankton! In my opinion, this new “continent” of ours is a living museum of our synthetic paradigm. The problem, then, is not plastic in and of itself but the vast amount of it around us!
Of course, the effects of plastic on the environment are plain. But could the incredible amount of plastic with all its xenoestrogens gradually start to affect the hormonal action of humans as well? Nonetheless, let’s first take a look at a few abnormal phenomena observed in animals… Hermaphrodite fish have started to appear more frequently all over the world. The same applies to the offspring of the seagulls, frogs and even alligators that ate these fish. In a 2002 study conducted in the US, 84% of fish with male chromosomes were found to have female reproductive tracts. Bisphenol A has been found in lakes where fish swim. In 2002, the Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences discovered that lakes, rivers, streams and brooks with a PBA level as low as 0.1 ppb (parts per billion) caused frogs to turn into hermaphrodites. Studies have also shown that very low amounts (2 ppb) are sufficient to cause abnormalities in the ability of mice to reproduce. It is noteworthy that concentrations measured in ppb have been discovered in lakes, whereas our natural hormones are usually measured in ppm (parts per million).
“There is every reason to conclude that the effect translates over into humans” / Toxicology & Industrial Health
So xenoestrogens are everywhere, which makes it impossible to completely avoid them. That said, we can significantly reduce exposure through personal choices. Therefore, it is important to avoid drinks, foods and low-quality cosmetics wrapped in plastic (i.e. a preference for natural cosmetics). You should also avoid standard laundry, dishwashing and cleaning products that have not been purchased in an organic or eco shop. I am fully aware that, at this point, many readers will put their hands up because the advice above sure doesn’t sound completely effortless. However, the practical guidelines below have been drawn up taking into account the majority of people, that is, ordinary busy and comfort-loving people and families. Ergo, these guidelines are easy to put to use and they really work, which is to say that they have a positive effect on our endocrine system. It is good to keep in mind that a successful and lasting lifestyle change requires not only will, but also meaningfulness and easy solutions.
Check your food packaging:
In practice, to limit the intake of these chemicals, you should avoid drinks and foods wrapped in plastic. PVC and polycarbonate plastic packaging are the worst. Heat, such as putting hot water into a polycarbonate bottle or heating your lunch in a plastic container, greatly accelerates the dissolution of bisphenol A. Plastic bottles and other plastic packaging with the triangular recycling symbol with the number 03 or 07 in the middle often contain phthalates and bisphenol A. You should avoid them. Also, glass containers, jars and bottles should be chosen whenever possible. Dark glass is often the best choice because it protects, for example, valuable fatty acids from light. These things are self-evident when talking about high-quality wines or olive oils, for instance.
Does beer taste better a) in a soft plastic bottle or b) in a dark glass bottle?
Check your cooking utensils:
Take a moment to think about your own cooking habits. If you cook with a Teflon-coated frying pan and leave your plastic spatula lying in the food as it boils, you are seasoning your gourmet meal with a pinch of xenoestrogens. Likewise, if you chop vegetables on a plastic cutting board and scrape the chopped up pieces into the saucepan with a knife, your food will probably also contain microscopic plastic chips from the cutting board.
Check your hygiene and cosmetic products:
What happens to your skin cream when you rub it into your body? Well, it’s absorbed into your skin. And so are all of the xenoestrogens in your skin cream. In other words, your skin has a natural tendency to absorb moisture on the surface of the skin. Your skin nourishes itself with the hygiene and cosmetics products applied to the skin, so stop to think for a moment. What do you want to feed it?
The above-mentioned practical guidelines are designed to help you figure out your own daily self-poisoning rituals. They may sound trivial, but in the course of years they can cause significant hormonal imbalances in your system. So take a moment to consider which of your current practices or products you could replace with alternatives that result in a lower exposure to xenoestrogens. Here is a list of examples:
Use xenoestrogen-free household appliances:
- Get Teflon-free (such as ceramic or cast iron) frying pans and pots
- Replace plastic cooking utensils with wooden or metal ones
- Replace plastic cutting boards with wooden ones
- Replace plastic drink bottles with glass or steel bottles
- Wherever possible, use glass or steel food containers
Use xenoestrogen-free hygiene and cosmetic products:
- Deodorant
- Skin creams
- Makeup
- Toothpaste
- Detergents
- Washing-up liquids
Phytoestrogens (plant oestrogens) and how to avoid them
I have often wondered about the factor common to many vegetarians. After all, it’s easy to see that vegetarians and vegans share more feminine traits (especially men) than people adhering to a mixed diet. I believe that in many cases the reason is that many vegetarians use a lot of soy (which contains a high level of phytoestrogens (although there is a lot of contradictory information on the effects of phytoestrogens on our hormonal functions)) in their diet. As a whole, a combination of foods rich in phytoestrogens and xenoestrogens is not the most balanced diet for our endocrine system.
However, at this point, there are a few issues that should be revisited and clarified. The issue with plastic, xenoestrogens, phytoestrogens and other chemicals similar to oestrogen is not that our endocrine system is disrupted if we occasionally drink water from a plastic bottle, tap on a computer’s plastic keys or eat soy strips. The issue is mainly that the whole system has become radically unbalanced. Today, the sheer amount of plastic to which we are exposed is so great that it gradually starts to create problems – in our bodies as well as the environment. If we add to the mix phytoestrogens, that is, the oestrogen-like ingredients that we consume with our food, and neglect physical exercise (especially strenuous training that triggers a strong anabolic response), testosterone can easily drop to a significantly low level. So let us go over the phytoestrogens that we get from food one more time, and then I will tell you how we can correct the balance.
Earlier, I mentioned the pronounced feminine quality noticeable amongst many vegetarians. I don’t mean it in a sexual sense; I’m talking about hormonal function. It is good to know that both men and women essentially need both sex hormones (oestrogen and testosterone). In fact, there is only a slight difference between testosterone and oestrogen, and yet their effects are very different. The operative word here is balance. And we are pretty far from it at the moment! In Eastern philosophies, the balance between forces is often depicted by yin & yang, which I think illustrates the subject very well. In the greater whole, the feminine and masculine sides are in balance but they both also need the qualities of each other. And so, even though this section by and large focuses on increasing testosterone as well as the downsides of oestrogen, it is not the intention that female readers should grow an Adam’s apple and a cute beard, nor is it to downplay the importance of oestrogen in any way, shape or form. Oestrogen is an essential hormone for the construction of our brain, for example, which is why women often have more complex and advanced thinking. (Hopefully this is enough to appease the female readers? 😉 ) In addition, it is good to know that the above-mentioned potential fears of women related to beard growth and other male traits are unnecessary because whenever we talk about the male hormones produced by your body and avoiding hormone disruptors outside the body (xenoestrogens, phytoestrogens), the end result can by no means be a distorted hormonal balance, but only an ideal state as a feminine woman or manly man to support your natural well-being, health and sexuality.
But let us move on to the actual subject. Phyto, meaning ‘plant’, comes from Latin. Thus, phytoestrogens are oestrogen-like compounds acquired from nutrition that are not good or bad in themselves. The key factor that often causes the most radical imbalances, however, is an increase in the oestrogen load due to a large and prolonged intake of foods containing phytoestrogens. In addition to the phthalates and bisphenol A contained in plastic, the most oestrogenic compounds in our body are phytoestrogens, such as soy and linseed. In my opinion, the most pronounced less masculine traits or hormonal disorders occur in people who consume large quantities of soy products over a long period of time. From time to time, the isoflavonoids (phytoestrogens) contained in soybeans surely have their place in a varied diet, but if your aim is balance and to maximise your hormonal action, I would recommend moving towards more balanced nutrition sources. The same applies to linseed (lignan).
Where possible, it is worthwhile to replace these foods with more androgenic (testosterone production/masculinity promoting) sources. After all, it is good to know that, in the light of history alone, both of the aforementioned foods have been considered to be more feminine and they have even been used to weaken virility. There is a Chinese anecdote that, in my view, perfectly describes the feminine qualities of soy. According to the story, a man cheats on his wife, after which she begins to feed him soy to weaken his sexual desire. We will return to androgenic or more masculine foods in more detail below.
Of course, it is good to understand that flaxseed, for example, is in many respects extremely high-quality food, and according to the world’s leading fat expert Udo Erasmus, a few bottles of flaxseed oil can have very therapeutic effects on normal consumers whose body fat balances are askew. However, for me, linseed is not an optimal and sustainable solution as a source of good fatty acids, fibre and nutrients, especially as most people consume their linseed in ground form where valuable fats are rancid as they have been exposed to air and light.
Attention all “real men”
In conclusion, I want to mention a factor that I think has been turned upside down in our society: If you familiarise yourself with any of the old medical systems (Chinese medicine, Ayurveda, Central American herbalism, etc.), you will find one clear indicator of health – traditionally, health has been largely measured by sexual desire, vitality and fertility. On the other hand, in our modern society, drinking beer is generally considered a very masculine “manly business”. Yet everyone can see how the phytoestrogens contained in beer (hops) affect men, for example, in terms of erectile dysfunction, fatigue, lack of vitality and the growth of “man boobs”. For example, 65-year-old men have higher oestrogen levels than women of the same age, and the testosterone levels fall by about 40% from the age of 40 to 70. In my opinion, this is anything but masculine! In other words, if we suffer from impotence, low sperm quality and quantity as well as a lack of sexual desire, you can be sure that there is nothing manly about any of these qualities, and certainly nothing fertile or healthy that promotes the development of our species.
How to block the action of oestrogen already existing in the body
The following substances block the action of oestrogen in the body:
- Cruciferous plants with a strong, burning, sulfuric taste (such as maca root, cabbage, turnip or radish)
- Citrus fruits
How to increase the quantity of free testosterone in the body
A key phenomenon most clearly evident in bodybuilders who have used testosterone as a doping agent is the gradually increased amount of oestrogen, which eventually atrophies the testicles and causes sympathetic “man boobs”. This is because our body converts excess testosterone into oestrogen (more specifically, estrodil and estrone). The hormones freely circulating in your body attach to various transporter proteins, which then carry the hormones to the necessary receptor areas. The free testosterone DHT attaches to a globulin called SHB, but we can still use a few compounds that inhibit the enzymes required for the conversion to keep the amount of free testosterone in the body higher by preventing free DHT from attaching to this “sex hormone binding” globulin.
Nettle root, the super herb of our garden, is by far the most potent anti-conversion food. From nettle root, you can easily prepare various tinctures or tea, or grind it into a powder to add to your shakes. In practice, this is how it works: put on some gloves, pull the appropriate amount of nettle out of the ground (spring is a particularly good time as the nettle is fresh), wash the dirt off of the roots and let them dry.
I recall a detail about nettle root I once read in Jon Barron’s book Lessons From The Miracle Doctors: According to studies, the combination of oat sprout + nettle root increases the amount of free testosterone in the body by 105%. Studies have also shown a 68% increase in the number of several consecutive orgasms in women.
The DIM compounds (diindolylmethane) contained in maca inhibit the conversion of testosterone to oestrogen. In addition, as I stated above, maca is a cruciferous plant that also blocks the action of oestrogen in the body.
How to increase the testosterone level via nutrition
Since this article would be incredibly long if I were to list the foods, adaptogens and nutrients linked to testosterone production, including their uses and properties, I will resign myself at this point to listing the traditional TOP 10. With regard to these adaptogens, the effect is most evident through extended regular use, where enough high-quality herbs have been used on a regular and cyclical basis.
Androgenic food products include:
- Egg
- Raw onion
- Oysters
- Pumpkin seeds
- Watermelon seeds
- Passion fruit seeds
- Pine nuts
- Wild oats
- Wild yams
- Mushroom
- Truffles
Testosterone production-supporting adaptogens:
- Ginseng (Panax ginseng) – Asian ginseng – Korean ginseng – Red ginseng
- Siberian ginseng (Eleuetherococcus senticosus) – eleuthero – Devil’s bush
- American ginseng (Panax quinquefolius)
- Tribulus terrestris
- Rhodiola rosea – roseroot
- Ashwagandha – winter cherry
- Shatavari
- Cordyceps
- Muira puama
- Maca
Testosterone production-supporting or anti-catabolic nutrients:
- Arginine
- Ornithine
- Chrome
- Zinc
- Selenium
- Vitamin C
- HMB
- L-glutamine
- Whey
- DHEA
1.2 The impact of nutrition and lifestyle on hormonal action – internal factors (hormone diet)
The key factors for the integrity of hormonal action are food quality, minimising the exposure to hormone disruptors, a healthy gut and intestinal function, liver and thyroid function, Ph balance, insulin sensitivity, stress and sleep. The previous section focused on the first two factors, namely food quality and minimising exposure to hormone disruptors. Nevertheless, I would like to highlight a few more things worth consideration at the end of the list of factors. To some readers, these factors may already sound less sexy, but I promise to write about them very briefly. Regardless, for the sake of motivation, I should mention that it is – no more and no less than – the key to restoring your health. This restoration of health can also be called the “hormone diet”. The hormone diet simply seeks to balance hormonal activity through nutrition and lifestyle choices. A body with a healthy endocrine system automatically extracts excess adipose tissue into energy even at rest, irrespective of calories, especially from your problem areas, as they are often caused by hormonal imbalances. On the other hand, a hormonally imbalanced body works almost in the opposite way when it comes to burning fat: it accumulates fat in your problem areas and is unable to get rid of it without help.
Right at the start of the section, we want to make one thing clear. Although, in this section, we talk a lot about the “hormone diet” and burning fat, we do not want to give the impression that dieting is part of the second sexual revolution or that a body with only a low percentage of fat is beautiful or sexy. It is our opinion that a suitable amount of fat is also an essential part of a healthy and beautiful body! Instead of actual dieting, we only recommend a restoration of health with balanced hormonal action, which just happens to have an extra fat-burning effect. Extra adipose tissue acts as a reservoir of oestrogen, which a healthy and properly functioning body tries to destroy in order to achieve natural hormonal balance. Your reflection is often a good, unbiased indication of your overall health as it shows if there is something significantly wrong with your endocrine system. In addition, we think that every dieter who stares at their calories should know a few facts about the effects of dieting on health and hormonal action. That is why it is particularly important for them to carefully read this paragraph.
The factors I listed at the start of the section that affect the integrity of the endocrine system and which I will discuss in a little more detail may cause a slight “information overload” amongst some readers. Therefore, I have put together a summary at the end of this section, i.e. a list of the Top 10 factors that you should take seriously, if you are interested in this so-called hormone diet.
Gastroenterology
The well-being of the gut and intestines has a huge impact on hormonal balance and health. Their condition depends on the nutrients that are absorbed into the bloodstream for your body to use as well as the harmful substances and pathogens of which your system is cleansed. If your gut and nutrient balance are in order, the parietal cells in the stomach wall produce gastric acid. Gastric acid breaks down food, transforming it into a chemical form and allowing the body to use the nutrients extracted from food, regenerating cells and building muscle tissue. The acid begins to break down proteins in the stomach, sending a signal that prompts the pancreas to secrete digestive enzymes and produce bile in the small intestine. Gastric acid is also responsible for destroying harmful bacteria that have entered the body with food. When the gastric acid level is sufficiently high, the food mass is transferred into the intestines. Digestive enzymes help break down proteins into amino acids, carbohydrates into monosaccharides and fats into free fatty acids. In an ideal situation, all of this happens effortlessly. However, it is quite rare today for the stomach and intestines to be in such a condition that digestion can be called optimal.
Although the abundant lifestyle of modern society does not subject us to malnutrition as such, it does expose us to nutritional deficiencies. Many of our current lifestyle choices cause digestive issues, which in turn lead to insufficient cellular nutrient intake and, therefore, hormonal imbalance. In addition to gastric acid, the preconditions of effectively functioning stomach and intestinal system include enzymes, intestinal bacterial balance and fibres. But, as I already promised, I will keep these theoretic sections short and skip “excessive information”. And so, you can find the information you need to take care of your stomach and intestines at the end of this section in the Top 10 list.
Liver
The liver is a workhorse that few of us know or understand anything about. It is like a small waste processing plant through which all of the blood in your body passes. It is also the most important fat burner. The liver has the ability to remove toxins, hormones, chemicals and other toxins that our bodies store in the adipose tissue, for instance. The liver also converts the fat extracted from the fat cells into energy and activates hormones that have an effect on fat burning. In addition to cleaning and regulating hormones, the liver’s tasks include regulating the metabolism of proteins, carbohydrates and fats, storing certain vitamins and minerals as well as producing certain endocrine substances, such as cholesterol. A practical example of the way the liver works is removing oestrogens with the help of vitamin B.
If the body’s nutrient balance is poor, the liver can’t do its job properly. In this case, metabolic products, chemicals and old hormones may accumulate in the body, causing many different problems, such as hormone imbalance or fat accumulation. This is why, in the case of fat burning, the use of multivitamins and a varied diet rich in vegetables and proteins is essential. And, as you already read above, the gastric acids must also be in good condition so that the important parts of the multivitamin are absorbed.
Thyroid
The thyroid protects the body from many environmental stress factors. Its function is to produce thyroid hormones that regulate the body’s metabolism as well as growth and development in young people. The thyroid loves an adequate supply of energy. An intake of nutrients alone is not enough if the calorie content of the food is very low. The various low-calorie juice fasts that have become popular among dieters are actually the “worst” thing you can do for your thyroid. Low-energy nutrition affects the workings of the body in such a way that the body slows down its metabolic efficiency by reducing the production of thyroid hormones. Therefore, slowing down the activity of the thyroid can therefore significantly affect the amount of calories the body burns at rest and during physical exercise. Most of the metabolic reactions in the body depend on the thyroid working properly.
Certain foods can have a beneficial effect on the function of the thyroid. Foods that can be easily added to the diet and are important for the thyroid include certain selenium-containing nuts, cold-pressed coconut oil containing medium-action and metabolic fatty acids as well as seaweed, which is a natural source of iodine. For instance, a few Brazil nuts a day are enough to secure the supply of selenium. Internal organs, such as the kidneys and liver, as well as meat also contain selenium. Cold-pressed coconut oil, on the other hand, can advance thyroid function if several tablespoons of it are consumed each day. The most important protein-based amino acids for the thyroid are tyrosine and phenylalanine. The best food sources of tyrosine are animal products, such as meat, poultry or fish. Plant products containing tyrosine include avocado, almonds and beans.
In particular, white flour products such as white bread, pastries and pasta contain bromide. As it fights the action of iodine in the body, bromide has a slowing effect on the thyroid . So get the carbohydrates you need by eating smartly, but don’t skimp on them.
Ph balance
The body’s Ph balance or acid-base balance affects countless mechanisms in the body, which makes it vital for the normal functioning of the body. That is why the body maintains the balance of acids and bases necessary for your health until the end, neutralising acids with the help of bases.
The body’s Ph balance is affected by:
- Food and drink
- Breathing, exercise
- Thoughts, feelings and stress
- The amount and quality of sleep
- Environmental effects (pollution, …)
If base-producing substances are not available through diet and lifestyle, the body uses its own base and mineral storages. To maintain the balance, the body “borrows” alkaline substances from mineral stores, such as bone, hair, nails, skin, teeth, cartilage and other tissues. In addition, acidity affects the hormonal balance, e.g. by decreasing the absorption of nutrients and increasing the secretion of the stress hormone cortisol. The building blocks of cortisol and testosterone are the same, so an increase in cortisol naturally leads to a decrease in testosterone levels in the body. What’s more, prolonged over secretion of cortisol causes the body to eat its own proteins – your muscles. Quite a cocktail to maintain the balance…
So what can we do to influence the Ph balance? First of all, each portion of food should be balanced with plenty of vegetables, berries and fruits. It is a good idea to consume five to ten servings or a handful of them every day. Also, remember to drink enough clean water – as dehydration acidifies. An adult person should consume at least two litres of clean water per day. The amount of coffee, carbonated beverages and cereal products should also be moderate as they cause an acidic response in the body.
Stress and sleep
Stress is necessary – the body is designed to function through stress. Positive stress keeps a person moving, motivated and in a good mood. It can include regular exercise, personal goals and pursuing them, ordinary daily chores and work. In suitable quantities, the stress hormone cortisol contributes to the healing of injuries, improves energy production and has a positive effect on memory. Stress becomes problematic when it becomes disruptive for the body.
The main function of cortisol is to keep the blood sugar level high enough in stressful situations. Due to the modern hectic lifestyle, many of us are walking around under constant cortisol bombardment. The hormonal balance is disturbed and fat does not burn in the presence of excess cortisol. Today, stress is also increasingly important for the above-mentioned Ph balance. Stress experts have estimated that you and I have to deal with hundred times the stress load compared with our predecessors who lived on this globe a hundred years ago. Also, according to studies, the majority of the 20,000 to 50,000 daily thoughts of modern humans are negative. So it is no wonder that our modern world, informed by stress and negative thoughts, causes a hormonal imbalance due to the constant overproduction of stress hormones. Potential reasons for continuous stress reactions include an excessive workload, traumatic relationships, addictions (stimulants such as caffeine or sugar), bowel issues, inadequate sleep as well as nutrient deficiencies, such as magnesium deficiency. Too little magnesium in the body can maintain excessive stress hormone secretion. An adequate magnesium level balances the body’s stress response and improves the quality of sleep.
Fortunately, there is a highly effective and completely free remedy for stress – sleep. Sleep is the best gift you can grant your body when you are stressed. Just a couple of nights of high-quality, uninterrupted sleep of at least eight hours can drastically reduce the amount of cortisol that accumulates belly fat and reduce the stress experienced by the body more than a stress management course lasting several weeks. The effect of sleep on hormonal balance or fat burning should not be underestimated as sleep deprivation can badly disrupt the hormonal system. Sleep deprivation causes, e.g. a decrease in the natural secretion of testosterone, DHEA (the building block of testosterone) and growth hormones. Body’s cleansing reactions and liver function may also be negatively affected by sleep deprivation.
So how should you sleep? Good sleep means that you fall asleep quickly and the next time you open your eyes is 8–9 hours after falling asleep. As the brain regenerates especially between 10 pm and 2 am, you should be in bed, feeling calm, before 10 pm. You will wake up in the morning feeling refreshed in body and mind, and there is no need to press the snooze button. If you are a man, a lively morning erection is a sign of a healthy circadian rhythm of testosterone and cortisol. Prioritising sleep may seem more boring than fine tuning your diet, interesting supplements, or a new kind of training programme, but it can yield double the results that you can achieve with other tricks. Six hours of sleep at night has been found to cause insulin resistance, where the ability of the cells to utilise sugars from carbohydrates is reduced and fat begins to accumulate in the body. Too little sleep reduces the ability of muscles to store energy in just a week. In addition, insufficient and poor quality sleep increases insulin and cortisol secretion. It can reverse the cortisol rhythm – so that too much cortisol is secreted in the evening and at night. As a result of poor sleep, high cortisol begins to dissolve muscle mass more easily into energy.
Unfortunately, not everyone can take quality sleep for granted. The most common causes of sleep issues include the body’s stressful state due to physiological or psychological reasons. For example, nutrient deficiencies, such as magnesium deficiency, or simply worrying that leads to anxiety day after day. Of course, there is nothing you can do about your body’s stress reactions, if the source of stress is something that you can’t control – such as a car accident or some other unpleasant event. In any case, your body responds to stress by producing cortisol. But you can always try to keep a positive attitude. When it comes to nutrient deficiencies, often the most common cause of sleep issues is magnesium deficiency. This being the case, adding magnesium is definitely one of the first things to try when trying to overcome issues with sleep. One of the most important minerals, magnesium is involved in over 300 chemical reactions in the body. And as we have already learned, increased stress consumes the body’s minerals and vitamins, such as magnesium. Perhaps it is no wonder, then, that magnesium deficiency is already almost typical for us modern people. After all, we have to wrestle with nearly a hundred times the stress level of our great-great-grandparents and eat nutrient-poor vegetables grown in a relatively poor soil compared to the “good old days”. And so getting magnesium from a bottle might not be such a silly idea;) Magnesium is available in different forms, and of these – again without unnecessary theory – I would recommend the following: magnesium citrate, aspartate, lysine, malate, fumarate, glycinate, glycerophosphate, taurate and orotate.
Insulin sensitivity
Insulin is a hormone whose main function is to regulate the sugar and fat balance. Insulin helps the carbohydrates, proteins and fats in food enter inside cells. As a child, your body makes utilises sugar efficiently. When you eat pasta or a piece of bread, your blood sugar rises and insulin balances it by letting the cells know that sugar is consumed. As we get older, the body’s ability to utilise insulin decreases in many people. As a result, if you eat more carbohydrates than your body can tolerate, your pancreas will produce too much insulin. Eventually, insulin becomes less effective, resulting in the reduced ability of the muscles and other organs to absorb sugar and store “unabsorbed” sugar/energy in adipose tissue.
As the effect of insulin on other hormones is particularly strong, balancing it is also strongly linked to correcting imbalances of all other hormones. Insulin affects the female and male hormones, cortisol as well as the growth hormone – all of the hormones involved in different ways in sexuality or fat burning and fat accumulation. Insulin is a great hormone. However, if your body lacks a sufficient number of receptors, a normal diet may raise the insulin level too much, which can cause significant harm in the long run (cardiovascular diseases, a build-up of fat). The best way to increase the number of insulin receptors is weight training, maintaining a low-insulin diet and managing your stress levels. The importance of weight training should not be underestimated because the less muscle tissue there is, the fewer insulin receptors there are in the body and the lower the insulin’s ability to perform its tasks. You can also help balance your insulin level by eating plenty of fibre on a daily basis as well as consuming omega-3 fatty acids (EPA, DHA) on the side.
The fat-burning effect of hormonal balance
Surely you have heard that weight loss improves your health – assuming that you are overweight. And of course it is true, but it is even more important to know that being healthy makes it easier to lose weight. Fat is not the cause of issues such as hormonal imbalance or high blood pressure. Health issues are the reason why fat accumulates in the body in the first place. Sure, the amount of energy in your diet matters, but it’s not the only contributing factor. If this were the case, everyone who adheres to a chronically low-calorie diet or eats little would probably be of a normal weight. Weight loss does not occur in a healthy way until you are healthy enough. And if your hormones are out of balance, you are not healthy.
So your hormonal balance has a fat-burning effect. Your reflection in the mirror is a good indication of the status of your hormonal action. Dr. Mark Houston, an internationally renowned cardiovascular specialist, is the director of the Hypertension Institute in Nashville, Tennessee, where 70% of patients are overweight or morbidly obese. The results of therapy aimed at achieving hormonal balance have been significant from the viewpoint of fat burning. Typically, patients burn 1–2 kg of fat per week. Indeed, the Hypertension Institute is the most successful clinic in Tennessee with regard to weight loss and, specifically, burning fat. In addition, Charles Poliquin, a proponent of the “hormone diet” principle, has helped elite athletes achieve truly stunning results in so-called precision weight loss without a loss of muscle mass. Precision weight loss refers to the accumulation of fat in different parts of the body as a result of an imbalance of different hormones. The hormone “receptors” are not evenly distributed throughout your body and, for instance, love handles, upper back fat or fat build-up in your thighs and buttocks are not caused by the same reasons. So there is a real reason (a specific hormonal imbalance) for fat always building up in a specific place. There is also a correct precision tool (repairing this hormonal imbalance) to remove it. However, at this point in time, the second sexual revolution does not head in the direction of precision weight loss as our goal is to balance the overall hormonal action, which in itself already burns fat – surprise, surprise – holistically.
I would also like to set straight a fairly common rumour circulating amongst dieters. For some reason, there is a common perception that aerobic exercise is best for burning fat. WRONG! Long-lasting aerobic training at a steady pace increases cortisol secretion. Problems arise if your body is already stressed and you increase its burden with aerobic training continuously or if you go overboard with the level of aerobic training. Of course, going for a run a few times a week doesn’t do any harm; on the contrary, it is recommended purely because of the mental health benefits of exercise. On the other hand, a genuinely stressed body neither needs nor is able to cope with a long cortisol load. High-intensity exercise always increases cortisol secretion as it is, after all, also an energy hormone. Cortisol decreases muscle tissue, which slows down your metabolism. That is why strengthening your body and maintaining muscle mass at the gym is absolutely necessary. Weight training is good for everyone as it contributes to the secretion of testosterone and growth hormone that balance the hormonal action overall. It is also worth keeping in mind that, during stress, the body consumes more nutrients than normal. Especially when it comes to burning fat, you should have access to at least omega-3 fatty acids, magnesium, multivitamin and vitamin B supplements. And as we already learned above, when the cortisol level is high, the body consumes the building blocks of sex hormones in order to create cortisol. This also makes your libido suffer.
… and in conclusion, a summary
So that was the “information overload”. Don’t worry if it was all a bit too much. As promised, I have added to the end of the section a brief summary of the things we discussed above that are easy to turn into a habit and that will really help you improve your health as well as your hormonal balance. So here comes the Top 10. We will follow it up with a beautiful and enjoyable subject many of your are already eagerly waiting for – that is, sex. But first, the list:
- Ensure food digestion and absorption by testing your gastric acid levels (you can find the test at the end of the site) and increase the natural production of gastric acid by minimising the consumption of carbonated beverages.
- Use probiotics to ensure the increase of a good bacterial strain in the gut.
- Drink sufficiently. Your body needs at least 2 litres of clean water per day.
- Take a fibre supplement every morning and night and change the source of fibre on a weekly basis (your body can quickly become allergic to a fibre, as it is in close contact with the surface of the intestines). Good sources of fibre that are readily available in grocery stores include hemp seed, ground camelina, coconut flour, psyllium and sugar beet fibre.
- Eat raw foods (vegetables, berries and fruits), proteins and natural fats on a daily basis with several meals. Your gut loves good fats, so why not offer them to it? They include, e.g. omega-3 fish oil, cold-pressed coconut or olive oil, organic butter, nuts, seeds and avocado.
- Find out your daily energy needs and eat accordingly, so that your thyroid works at full capacity and you do not run on fumes.
- Minimise your consumption of dishes and foods that contain additives and preservatives. Also avoid foods that clearly give you stomach trouble.
- Use a high-quality multivitamin product. One of the hallmarks of a good multivitamin is that you take it more than once a day (you can’t fit a sufficient amount of good quality nutrients into one tiny tablet). Consuming magnesium and zinc from a bottle is also recommended, to say the least.
- Try to sleep at least 8 hours a night.
- Go to the gym. 20 to 30 minutes at a time two or three times a week is enough, as long as you focus on movements involving multiple joints that comprehensively strain the body (different squats, weight lifting movements, etc.). Ask a qualified personal trainer for advice.
2. Sexual pleasure – a mechanical act or an authentic feeling of living in the moment?
In addition to the above-mentioned lifestyle choices and nutrition that support your sexual health, the intensity of sexual pleasure is affected by your personal physical and psychological factors. Below, we discuss these factors as well as tools for developing them.
2.1 Physical factors
One of the best ways to experience extreme well-being, relieve stress and improve the quality of life is to have good sex. Unfortunately, not everyone can take good sex for granted but, with a little practice, we can all do it – and that includes you. So, in this section, we talk about what sexual pleasure can be at its best and what physical factors it requires from you.
Gender differences
I am all for equality, and the phrase “women first” is an essential part of my upbringing and values. However, this time, I thought I would make an exception and introduce the section for men first. I think it’s quite natural in these circumstances because unfortunately often, also in the field of sex, it tends to be the case that men, despite their polite attitude, “get their turn” first 😉 .
Attention men!
Few men are born with a sexual ability that he or his partner is completely happy with every time. According to Taoist wisdom, a man’s sexual energy is like fire, and a woman’s sexual energy is like water. For a woman, the water must reach a boiling point which, of course, takes time compared with a man’s fiery tendencies to act immediately. A woman is almost always sexually superior to a man because her water extinguishes the man’s fire.
By maximising the “physical factors” of sexual pleasure, men are able to fully control the timing of ejaculation and continue sexual intercourse for as long as the situation demands it. Despite studies, the exact cause is still unknown (after all, it is a complex involuntary reflex at the nervous system level), but experience has shown that it is possible to control the reflexive contraction of the PC muscle resulting from orgasm and causing ejaculation by means of adequately controlling the PC muscle. In other words, with a conscious control of the PC muscle achieved through PC muscle exercises as well as a higher level of PC muscle strength, a man can experience an orgasm and, at the same time, prevent the discharge of semen. Then, the man experiences an orgasm without ejaculating, which does not cause him to lose the erection as normal but, on the contrary, gives him energy to continue.
Attention women!
Unlike men, women experience a wide range of orgasms. They range from a sense of pleasure in a small area to whole-body, mind-filled euphoria – poetically expressed: your fighting ego shrinks to its rightful size, that of a small grain of sand, and reluctantly begins to hum in harmony in the ocean of the subtle universe rhythmically sweeping over it. Then, you are present in the moment.
The intensity of sexual sensations as well as the enjoyment of sex will inevitably remain incomplete, if the ability to experience sexual pleasure is lacking. That is a shame, because pleasures are the salt of life and every woman, thanks to her natural biology, is more than capable of one of the most perfect states of being in the universe. Unfortunately, this ability is less and less common in this day and age. Fortunately, though, with a little practice, every woman can fine tune her “feelers” for sexual pleasure. By maximising the “physical factors” of sexual pleasure, women are able to experience several orgasms in a row – and much stronger and longer lasting orgasms – than before!
Strengthening the PC muscles
The muscle tone of the body affects lovemaking in a number of ways. The stiffness and tightness of your body limit your ability to experience and express emotions. On the other hand, insufficient muscle tone (hypotonia) makes it hard to detect and express internal sensations. The abdominal, pelvic and thigh muscles play a particularly big role in sexual sensitivity and expression. The most important muscle group surrounding and supporting the genitals is called musculus pubococcygeus, or the PC muscles for short. Extending from the pubic bone region to the coccyx, the PC muscles are what many animals use to wag their tails, for example. In humans, the PC muscle supports the anus and internal organs, keeping them in place. It is located a few centimetres deep and has a thickness of 1–5 cm. The condition of the muscle is key to happy lovemaking for men and women alike. An insufficient ability to flex the muscle creates issues with sexual functions, childbirth, movement of internal organs, numbness in the pelvic area, menstrual cramps, pain and urine leakage.
The PC muscle creates rhythmic contractions, most commonly in the form of an orgasm. The poor condition of the muscle is also a major cause for many women’s inability to have an orgasm. Fortunately, you can train the PC muscle, like any other muscle. The PC muscle is just like any other muscle in your body. Making it stronger does not happen overnight; it requires regular training, determination and time. Usually, you can see clear results after just a few months of active training. Achieving “adequate peak condition”, though, can take up to a few years, depending on individual factors as well as the quality of exercises, of course.
As in all sports, it is recommendable to train the PC muscle on a so-called sport-specific basis, so that the exercises support the sport as effectively as possible. For example, a marathon runner might not want to work out too much to gain muscle mass, let alone maximise their bench press, as the sport is largely focused on leg endurance. Of course, there is also a place for these exercises in marathon training but, by focusing on the exercises specific to the sport, you are surer to achieve the desired results faster. The following PC muscle exercises for men and women are simple, free, easy and discreet to do at home, work or even while out running and specifically tailored to this “sport”.
PC exercise for men
Exercise 1: Urinary retention: To begin, locate your PC muscle by stopping the flow of urine while peeing. Then, use more force to squeeze the urine out. You can repeat this exercise up to 75 times with a full bladder. It is a good exercise in itself. You can easily turn it into an almost unconscious habit.
Exercise 2: PC compression technique: Flex and relax the PC muscle 50 times. Remember to maintain slow and regular breathing. Then flex your PC muscle as hard as possible for 30 seconds. Repeat 7 times.
PC exercise for women
Exercise 1: Urinary retention: To begin, locate your PC muscle by stopping the flow of urine while peeing. Then, use more force to squeeze the urine out. You can repeat this exercise up to 75 times with a full bladder. It is a good exercise in itself.
Exercise 2: Pulsed contractions. These are fast contractions lasting a second. Perform ten contractions five times in a row. Repeat the exercise twice a day. To begin with, you can do as many as you like. Use the same muscles as when holding in urine or excrement.
Exercise 3: Pulsed compressions: As above, but instead of contracting inwards, flex the muscles outwards, similar to when squeezing out urine or giving birth. Rhythm as above, but gradually increase the number of exercises.
Exercise 4: PC suction: Flex the muscles as in exercise 1, but inhale slowly while doing it. Flex the muscles all the time as you exhale (for approx. 10 seconds). Gradually increase the number of exercises to 20 a day.
As is clear from the exercise programmes above, the key word for strengthening the PC muscle, especially at the early stages of training, is to identify it – to flex it in isolation. According to studies, some people are not able to identify this muscle, or they may find it hard to flex it correctly. There are many reasons for this. What’s more, an added challenge when it comes to training the PC muscle (just like any other muscle in your body) is finding motivation. Despite these potential physical or psychological deficiencies, everyone is able to train their PC muscle into a real “sex muscle” because medical science has developed commercially available devices for training and taking care of the muscle. However, said devices are fairly expensive and they are marketed as equipment for treating urinary incontinence. You see, urinary incontinence results from a weak PC muscle, and this equipment has succeeded in treating even challenging cases of urinary incontinence where specialist doctors have been unable to make the patients any promises with regard to rehabilitation. These devices are included in the genuinely useful products that I promised. I will tell you a little bit more about them in the product section of the website.
2.2 Psychological factors
Although it has already been shown above what a significant role physical factors play in sexual pleasures, everyone should understand that without psychological factors, you can’t reach the peak of sexual pleasure. Physical factors maximise the mechanical side of sex, but only psychological factors can help create a genuinely and spiritually satisfying sexual relationship – an authentic feeling of living in the moment, where the partners truly meet themselves and each other.
If the psychological factors are not OK, sex fails to bring complete spiritual satisfaction. Then, the partners do not genuinely meet each other or even themselves, and even the sex leaves a hollow feeling. Sex is nothing but a performance of kind. In order for partners to meet themselves, they must first sufficiently know themselves. This self-knowledge requires different experiences and reflecting on them. On the other hand, gaining experiences often requires encouragement and shedding false beliefs, such as stereotypes, so that they do not lead to setting false goals.
And so, in this section, we talk about ways to become more aware of yourself and your true sexual needs, because only then will you be able to build yourself a sex life that is as spiritually satisfying as possible.
Awakening, vision and growth
In order for you to achieve diverse knowledge of what you really want from your sex life, you should first learn to stop and listen to yourself in different situations. At this juncture, you must close your mind to the stereotypes and role expectations instilled in us by the media and cultural norms as well as the limited ideas and attitudes they engender, which always lead to false goals. This gaining of diverse knowledge could be described as a kind of “awakening”, i.e. a conviction regarding the necessity of change and, at the same time, the opportunities it offers. Unfortunately, most people who think they are doing well sexually also miss this awakening and, with it, the spiritual side of sexual pleasure. In all likelihood, this is due to the fact that, almost without exception, people must have a specific need before they will think to stop and take stock. Usually, they only take time to reflect when they encounter a new problem. Of course, it is understandable that if everything is fine in terms of sex, why would you waste energy on thinking about it? Still, there is no shortcut to maximising sexual pleasure; it must start with taking the time to take a good look at yourself.
Awakening is followed by envisioning. This means that when you become aware of your true sexual preferences and needs, it is easier to envision how a perfectly satisfying sex life would look like. You should write it down because once you see goals that you can fully identify with written on a piece of paper, you have found your personal vision/lighthouse to give you positive energy to support you in this little learning process. Write your vision in the present tense and only list positive things. For example, if lovemaking has become a Saturday night routine that you will try to get quickly “out of the way”, but you simultaneously crave for a bit more tenderness and closeness in your sex life, you could write down your vision along the lines of: “I will only concentrate on my partner and enjoy their touch with every cell of my being.” If you use negative expressions in your vision, it may ring in your ear and not work as the required positive image. Then, the vision loses its meaning and does not take you forwards. If, as a cautionary example, you wanted to write down your vision wrong, it could sound something like this: “When we make love, I will not think about my backlog of work or try to rush…” As you see, the way you word your vision can have a big impact on your mind, attitude and, in that way, performance. OK, the above cautionary example was written in an exaggeratedly unsexy way, but its sole purpose was to demonstrate the issue. However, it is important to understand that it is precisely this expression of your vision that gives birth to the positive cycle of self-discovery and awareness, as very often a clear positive image is a self-fulfilling prophecy!
Next, you will need diverse experiences targeting your vision and, especially, reflecting on them. They will provide you with valuable information about yourself and strengthen your vision, i.e. support – or change – the goals that you wrote down. In other words, your vision is allowed to live and develop, because so are you. That being said, most important in this search for experiences and reflecting on them is a strong positive attitude towards your personal spiritual growth. Achieving this attitude requires self-confidence and sometimes just a little bit of encouragement. These, you can draw from the vision that you wrote down, for example.
Undoubtedly, self-discovery is easier in a strong relationship than if you are single because the relationship is supported by a reliable partner with whom it is safe and fun to enter this path of discovery. But even if you were single, exploring yourself by acquiring and reflecting on experiences is extremely valuable for sexual growth. Of course, finding a reliable partner for your experimentation can be more of a challenge than in a relationship, and often the most reliable partner can be found in the mirror or on the shelf of an adult toy shop. Despite their perhaps somewhat negative reputation, sex toys are a proven therapeutic tool used by sexual therapists, and there is no shame in testing them out. That said, if buying a sex toy in a store makes your cheeks blush, you can order them reliably online. (You can find links to trusted suppliers in the product section of this page.)
I truly hope that, based on the brief information package you read above, you will understand – or perhaps, at this point, it would be more realistic to hope that you look forward to – the pleasures and delights made possible by your spiritual growth. After all, if you sense and feel that you want to make this little voyage of exploration to your inner self, then start by taking a moment to stop and go through these three stages (awakening, vision and growth). The essential thing is to remember to accept all aspects of yourself and your personal needs/preferences without hiding anything from yourself.
Also, I can’t recommend this book highly enough. It is called “Getting the Love You Want” and it is written by the American relationship therapist Harville Hendrix. A global bestseller, it comes highly recommended by a wide range of professionals. The book guides you to conscious marriage and mature love (you’ll find out what this means when you read the book). Although the book does not explicitly state maximising sexual pleasure as its goal, all of these worthwhile themes have one common denominator: appreciation for and recognition of yourself (and your partner). When it comes to self-recognition and instructions on how to achieve it, this book may be beyond compare, so please don’t hesitate but read it. I would argue that, once you have read the book, you will surely experience the aforementioned awakening and that your journey of self-recognition and growth and, thereby, maximising your sexual pleasure will be get off to a solid, safe start that will carry you over the finish line.
3. AFTERWORD
We want to thank all readers for your attention! The text you have just finished reading is a highly summarised yet fully sufficient, fact-based information package to your personal sexual health as well as maximising your sexual pleasure. We sincerely hope that you have enjoyed our text and discovered answers to your questions.
We also hope that, now at the latest, you understand or at least have a sense of the importance of your sexual well-being as well as its naturalness and beauty. Please join the “second sexual revolution” and give your intrinsic sexual health a chance to shine and also show on the surface by making balanced hormonal action a part of your daily life. Start maximising the physical and psychological preconditions of your sexual pleasure today to give yourself and your partner permission and the opportunity to experience something truly beautiful together!
Accept the challenge and resurrect your inner “superhero of sex” as soon as possible because pleasures are the salt of life and only your holistic well-being allows you to enjoy life to the fullest.
“Beautiful sexuality, beautiful life. Maximise the beauty, maximise your sexuality.”
P.S.
The goal of this website is to spread the message of the second sexual revolution as widely and to as many people as possible, just as it was during the first revolution, because the insight of “beautiful sexuality, beautiful life” from half a century ago is still valid today – now we just have to put a little more effort into it! So please let your friends know about the website because the message of the second sexual revolution is nothing to be ashamed of – on the contrary, it is all about improving the quality of life both from a physical and spiritual point of view. In addition, thanks to your tip, the far-reaching consequences of balancing the hormonal action of your friends, even for their future children, may be really significant.